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What needs volunteering for?
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Feeling wanted and useful without being used helps inspire me to volunteer.
What has happened in the year I have been a member…
After having a door held for me, and telling the person “Thank you,” I was told I wasn’t welcome. Immediately, I asked for clarification of what this person said, the reply was that I was not welcome here. I took the hint and flat tire and stayed away a few months. I thought maybe the person was just having a crappy day and I caught the flack of it.
Since coming back I tried to pitch in when I have been at the space. I have tried to clean up things I knew were out of place. This lead to people being upset with me in my perception, because I was told that “wasn’t my job” to clean up after others.
I’ve unclogged the women’s toilets more than I can count and disinfected the basin of the crappers afterwards… no place to file that I have completed this task, but it needed done. I’ve cleaned poop off the floors and walls in there since I’ve been a member and no one noticed or cared… I say that because I’ve cleaned poop off the items in there more than once.
I have tried to come on work days and stayed as long as the body will hold out and excused myself when I knew I had to leave.
I have been available just to be an ear, a friend or shoulder to a community that seems to talk trash about my hair twirling behind my back.
When attending another teacher’s class, I’ve been gopher and had class mates seem to make comments to the instructor that couldn’t have been too nice, because after the whispers the teacher looked at me differently because of whatever was said; and even more confused when I cleaned up, replaced supplies and apologized if I had been annoying to them in the class.
What I thought I was getting in joining Your makers space was a perspective group of working friends. It’s not exactly what I have found. I have taken more classes than I have hosted and donated in the boxes when I have used supplies.
So, what kind of volunteers are YOU looking for?
I know 90% of what I have typed sounds pissy and snarky; but after all the reading I have done of the most prolific posters, all I am seeing is a push to be rid of those who didn’t find a click to become a part of.
Someone recently posted “Headphones in, head down, get my project done.” I have to agree with that sentiment. Being nice up here is not the way to make friends it seems. You’ve got to be pushy, into everyone’s area, nosey and brash. All things I am not.
So my thoughts are out there now. Not that they fully answered your question or even stayed with in the topic, but this was the most relevant area I have seen to post things I have sat on while trying to decide if volunteering here is worth the pain and humiliation.