I have some personal experience on a very, very small scale with this - a pair of MEP-816A generators.
In theory, you had a signal cable that went between the pair, and you’d plug it in, then start 1, then start 2, then balance them using the voltage and frequency controls independently (and get them as close to one another as possible, then close the interrupter on 1, then put them into sync, then stand back and be sure the sync lights are blinking in unison, then you could close the interrupter on 2 and in theory you were synched and making nice 60 Hz power and you could close the load.
That was the theory.
In practice, that shit never worked right, and if you didn’t give them their proper care and feeding and sacrifice, they’d drift out of sync, and that’d trip the protection circuits, and power would stop flowing to the people who wanted it. Inevitable as I was sleeping somewhere.
Keeping multiple generation sources in sync with one another is a non-trivial challenge. Even to this day, frequency drift is the greatest danger to any given grid, and it’s what they watch more closely than anything else. Look at this from ERCOT’s site:
http://www.ercot.com/content/cdr/html/real_time_system_conditions.html
They track frequency down to 1/1,000 of a Hz, in a system generating 36 gigawatts of power.
All that said, you can connect with other power sources via what’s called a DC Tie, but that means that AC comes in from both sides, is rectified to DC for the exchange, and then inverted back to AC again.
But at a huge current - 375 kVa AC side.
It’s not the most efficient system, but it’s the only way to do it.