for what it’s worth, in my book, 10 keys is too heavy. No more than 3 has always been my advise, if you can’t find a way to make your car key the only one in the ignition (“breakaway keychains”, etc.)
Chilton’s may be better than nothing, but, if you can get them, the factory manual is really the only way to go (for any car, not just Honda). (see this advice from Tom (@TLAR ) to this effect). Getting your hands on the Honda manual is likely not going to happen, though. You MIGHT be able to find decent info through ShopKey, or similar online services, sometimes libraries offer such services, or sometimes you can talk a local shop into letting you look (may or may not be fees involved; don’t underestimate the power of beer!)…
As for the exact procedure, no dice for me, either, with the youtubes. This is likely close
The most daunting piece for the novice, if necessary (I’m not sure) is chiseling out the shear bolts. Novices aren’t accustomed to taking a hammer and chisel (or cut off wheel, etc.) to their steering column. The air hammer with chisel was my preferred tool, in my assembly line days.
You can do this!